There was uproar about the name of a skateboard trick that had nothing to do with race, but the sound it made, that could sound dodgy out of context but a homophobic slur that is meant to be a homophobic slur is okay? I have no clue which way all your moral compasses are going to be facing from one day to the next, haha.
Did we forget the first times we heard people swearing and using words we never heard before? Mainly park and school playgrounds from kids older than us? Especially the naughty/trouble kids.
The first time I got told off at school for swearing was when I was 9 and I called another kid a Michael Fabricant in earshot of the duty teacher.
I’d never dream of bringing that language home or use it on front of my parents cos I’d get a slap.
And with phones in the school I think a sweary Christmas song is the least of parents problems lol.
Sorry you’ve lost me? You can’t make a thick person intelligent by just giving them credit to be so? To give someone credit is like giving them benefit of the doubt, or not, sort of. ‘You’re more intelligent than I gave you credit for’,ect… or are you talking about exam credits? Lost.
If my kids says fuck, shit, Michael Fabricant, whatever… okay, they are going to hear them, I’m sure I’ve said a bad word in front of them at some point by mistake. Not homophobic/racist/sexist slurs though. That is the difference.
Surely then that’s why you explain why it’s wrong and explain the times were different and they learn from it rather than shielding their ears?
They’re only going to have some one at school say “have you heard the bad version” . Queue everyone’s ear pricking up.
I do agree it’s a hard situation because I’m in the same boat when it come to sexism, racism, homophobia etc and with that, like Mick said, do we edit most rap/grime etc or delete them completely?
And it’s almost hypocritical because we are happy to see statues of slave owners ripped down.
What can we pick and choose is right or wrong?
I don’t know if I’m going in circles lol
Watching Rush Hour with Jackie Chan and Chris Rock recently and there’s a bit where Jackie Chan, playing the foreigner in LA, says “What’s up my n******!” to a black guy and a fight starts. Made for a good time/example to explain to my son what the word meant, context, racism, etc. Half the time, kids don’t know what they’re saying, just that they heard somebody else say it and therefore it’s fine, like the time I called a stand in teacher in 2nd class a wanker, not knowing the meaning. Better off explaining to kids what’s going on rather than keeping everything a secret.
I’d argue that Michael Fabricant is a sexist slur. It really bugs me when people call Trump or whoever a Michael Fabricant. My wife gave birth to our daughter through hers. It’s a fucking incredible thing and should be given credit as such, not as supposedly the ‘worst’ word you can use.
Art, slang and freedom of speech should be protected but each instance should be looked at separately, history, context, need of usage all considered.
Fairytale is art and it’s conveying a story from a time using characters less than perfect. Imagine if we had to sit through a film where everyone was squeaky clean.
It’s our job as people to know and teach anyone that does not know, the meaning and reason for usage of the offending parts.